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A Good Tree Bears Good Fruit

“SINCE MY CONVERSION to Islam, one of the questions that has plagued my heart has been whether I have truly changed. Am I the same old Kaighla, changed only in my outside appearance? Do I handle problems differently than I used to and unlike the majority of the non-Muslims around me? Has the message of Islam, of complete submission to Allah, really permeated my heart? When these questions start to bother me, I realize that the answer can only be found in searching my actions, because a person can say “Lâ ilâha illa Allah” until he is blue in the face, but without having allowed those words to speak to his heart, tongue, and mind, they will not save him.”

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Surat Yusuf: A Story to Comfort | Part 1- Revelation

“Yûsuf’s story was meant to comfort the Prophet, but it was also meant to bring relief to the believers. The Companions were suffering through mental, physical and emotional persecution. It was incredibly painful and difficult for them and they asked the Prophet for stories; they were looking for uplifting. And that comfort came in the form of the story of Yûsuf, revealed to Prophet Muhammad.

Yûsuf was abandoned by his brothers: Not only did they contemplate murdering him, but they also forced their young brother into a well and deserted him. He was sold into slavery. He consistently dealt with the flirtations of his master’s wife, culminating in her unabashed calling him to have a sexual relationship with her. He was the subject of gossip in an entire town; he dealt with the interest of an entire group of women; he was thrown into jail and then forgotten there. He dealt with trial upon trial, test upon test. When one difficulty passed, in its place came another. And yet, in the end (as we will discuss, inshâ’Allah, in this tafsîr series), he not only became a ruler, but also he was reunited with his entire family in love, in dignity and honor, and in wholesome acceptance by the very brothers who forced him out of their lives.”

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Ibn Al-Qayyim’s Madarij Al-Salikin (Steps of the Seekers) | The Station of Adab (Etiquette) – 2

Beautiful article on having proper adab with the Messenger (saw):

“Abdullah ibn Al-Mubarak, God have mercy on him, said:

“Whoever is neglectful of adab is punished by the missing of sunnas [recommended acts], and whoever is neglectful of sunnas is punished by the missing of obligations, and whoever is neglectful of obligations is punished by the deprivation of knowing God.”

It has also been said that adab in a deed is a token of its acceptance.”

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One of the most beautiful verses in the Quran is when Allah describes for us what marriage is really all about:

It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security with her. [Surat Al-Tawbah, 9:178]

One of the foundations of being a mate to another individual is to provide that person with a strong sense of security; and that type of security can only be acquired through a genuine trust and a close bond. However, for most couples, we start out only with passion.

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A Good Tree Bears Good Fruit

“SINCE MY CONVERSION to Islam, one of the questions that has plagued my heart has been whether I have truly changed. Am I the same old Kaighla, changed only in my outside appearance? Do I handle problems differently than I used to and unlike the majority of the non-Muslims around me? Has the message of Islam, of complete submission to Allah, really permeated my heart? When these questions start to bother me, I realize that the answer can only be found in searching my actions, because a person can say “Lâ ilâha illa Allah” until he is blue in the face, but without having allowed those words to speak to his heart, tongue, and mind, they will not save him.”